Okay Great, Now I'm 23. What Should I do then?
- Rizky Firdaus
- Aug 7, 2022
- 2 min read
Updated: Nov 28, 2022

Giving a chance to live life till 23 is such a pleasant thing but at the same time, the pressure hits really hard now. I, as an author, have the audacity to create this post as an assignment for my second appraisal in my current office. Truly in my deepest heart, I don't think I'm the right person to talk to about this. But I am. Now I'm gonna tell you what I've been through. I hope this match your current needs especially since this might be well for SEO. I'm begging.
Dream /dri:m/
When I was a kid, I was a dreamer I wanted to become the person that unrealistically happened, surely it makes me who I am now. Having a dream to motivate living a life that we all know it's not easy - that's probably the reason why you're here right? Okay, as I said living life it's not easy, we surely need something to hold when everything feels like falling apart, inconsistent, and didn't go as we wanted. So that we need a dream(s) to make us always stay motivated even in the worst situations like you read the word "Unfortunately" in the recruiter's email. Also, if you need information regarding dreams, and how to create them I suggest you check this post.
ex·pec·ta·tion /ˌekspekˈtāSH(ə)n/
Manage your expectation, before it hurts you. Seems like it's contradictory, but it will help you. Now, imagine you have unlimited food, and unlimited money and you don't have to work for being able to have those things, it will be nice right? but sadly you have to stop it, right now! That was unrealistic and you shouldn't do that ever again. Instead of being imaginative, I suggest you grab your pen and write a dream with a realistic plan to achieve that. This is a great article to find out more about.
Friends /frendz/
We, as social creatures need to have activities to socialize with even if we're an introvert. Socializing with those people that we called friends should be fun, and there's no agreement through everything, it's always natural - organic things because it's gonna be mutual. "Friends don't lie," said Eleven from Stranger Things.
Those are a few components to make your 23 even better. It's really okay to seek a physiologist or even a physiatrist if you need someone to hear your problem and give a piece of good advice. Whatever the future is, it's always scary but that's okay we need stimulus to make good decisions.
Such a toughtful post. Good work. Keep it up!